So, I went to a wedding reception for a girl I know from the multicultural dance group I was in... geez , 5 years ago? Anyway, she's half Mexican and half Iroquois (Cayuga tribe from Northern New York state) and tonight, we did the celebratory thing of well, celebrating Jonathan - her now husband - and her marriage. I mention her nationality because it turned into a big Mexican party type at the end. Lots of dancing and even a mariachi band. Which, side note, there was a white guy in the band playing the violin. It was a little weird. I wasn't expecting elegance or even something remotely "normal"...whatever that means. I was expecting full blown loud latino craziness. But it wasn't. It was relatively...normal, for lack of a better word. I mean with the exception of the mariachi band and the dancing at the end of the evening, it was pretty normal. For us brown folk, there's always a program of sorts. Like singing or the haka or a couple doing a cultural danc...